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I guess what I am getting at is how do we find a compromise to her needs with affection and mine.
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Summer of '09 I met a girl who I didn't find very attractive at all. 3 months later I was madly in love with her and we were dating. So yes, it's definitely possible to become attracted to someone over time that you weren't attracted to at first. Actually, I'd say it pretty common. In fact, the girl I'm chasing now I've known since last year and have recently become very attracted to her.
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Hi. I am self employed and honest, loyal and caring person. I love to go outdoors, go to some lakes and spend day their. Love to travelling out of town. Watching movies et.
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Looks like you haven't told the full truth again.
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I have been with my boyfriend for just under 3 years. When we had been together for around 7/8 months, he had a one night stand with a girl he worked with. We hadnt had sex at this point, as it was my first real relationship and basically i wanted to make really sure i was ready. We had sex for the first time (also my first ever time) after being together around 10/11 months. I didnt find out about his one night stand until we had been together for a year and a half, when a friend found out and told me.
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And on your own end, you need to be able to let go and trust, or if you cannot for any reason (because he is still not acting trustworthy, or if the memory of him cheating just won't go away no matter how hard you try), leave.
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ohhh my God!!!shes gorgeous!!(y).
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Well, I wouldn't say this is a real good sign that he's smitten with you.
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Money, appearance, education, class, family, personality all still mattered, the "best" ones were still sought after and those that did not make the grade "settled" or remained alone.
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Oh okay. If the definition of 'multidating' being used here is going on a date with more than one person before you find a guy you like, I mean, I think pretty much everyone has done that? That's not what I understood 'multidating' to mean. At least not how it's typically used on this forum. A lot of people are not sure about becoming exclusive after 3 dates. If a woman likes such a person, it's often recommended for her to "see other guys!" That's the multidating I never got/is hard for me.
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And have you ditched your lesbian friends due to her feeling angsty? No? But you are engaged????? HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE!?!?! You didn't change around your entire life for her! You must be a SELFISH MAN!!!
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Incredible girl, incredible body.
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The black girl is by far the hottest.
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However, have you been in that situation? I don't think you have. Not that I have either... it's just I think I can understand the guys that are.
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You have nothing to lose by waiting.
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Guy #2. Dating is a 2 way street. Sometimes I say I dunno where to eat or chill because either I dont have a good idea in my head just yet, or I actually want the girl to make an effort. Its a test to see is a fun gal whos good with hangouts and adventures and what not.
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Why don't you just end it already?
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I live a simple comfortable life don't like fake people and see there is so much on this site. So if you feel you have time in your hands to jerk people find a room and pleasure yoursel.
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That really sucks, and I guess you need to think about if this is something you wish to continue in your life, particularly such a negative influence on her from her friends. See how it goes, though I question if I would want to continue. It does need to be discussed, but maybe put this on the back burner for a few days and give her a chance to digest everything and hopefully feel less attacked.
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Anyway, we have been dating now for a year and a half, and I still can't shake this insecurity. I think it's hard knowing that the girl was the one who left him, not the other way around, and that if she hadn't dumped him he probably would have been married to her by now. He admitted that he wasn't ready when we first started dating to date again but he is now. I guess sometimes I feel like I'm just like the other girl he started dating after his ex dumped him but dumped shortly after his ex decided she wanted him back, and that the only reason we're together is because his ex has moved on and is engaged. I also sometimes see similarities between me and this other girl he dated after her (both of us were younger, liberal, outgoing and in law school while his ex is older, conservative, shy, and was a high school drop out at the time they were engaged). He admitted that he has issues with the fact that he thinks I'm intelligent and ambitious and that one of the things he liked about his ex was that he could teach her a lot of stuff because she wasn't very smart.
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weeeeelll i just saw him and it went pretty ****ing badly.
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I also wonder, once things calm down for her, will she say goodbye to me when she maybe realizes I was there to help her thru this transition. I do not want to be that guy in her life. I would prefer to stop seeing her, let her work thru all of her transitions, they we get together.