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Uh, it really is for some men. Where I grew up, a woman insisting on splitting the bill on the first date is essentially saying, "Let's be friends." The men whom I have been with would have been quite put off if I had refused to let them pay. I split the bill with a few guys whom I didn't want to be with and they DID get somewhat upset about it (but that was the whole point of me insisting - it was a strong signal that I didn't want to date them). Just how social signals in some cultures work, and just how some men feel/think.
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I hear what you're saying, but you know what? My dad was an ******* who treated me like crap for most of my childhood. And though I still struggle with the effects of that to some extent, I got away from his darkness and am making my own great life -- as an adult.