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I don't like being seeing people hurt, so I try to use some judgement. I try my best not to hurt anyone. For the most part, it works.
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Fast forward to him returning from vacation; his day back, we hang out a bit and kiss again, and he mentions wanting to spend a personal day with me alone at my place... I freaked out a bit and kind of avoided the subject. I wasn't sure if he was trying to get more intimate than I was frankly ready for. Instead I told him I wanted to get to know him more, and we spent some time over the week doing so... in the process I learned he is, err, quite the sexual guy. I never felt 100% okay going along when he tried to broach sexual topics because I still wasn't sure if he genuinely liked me or was looking for some ass. He did tell me that it was a year and a half since he'd been intimate, and that was based on how picky he is about who he's intimate with. But again, due to the nature of his personality, I found it hard to believe... not saying it can't be true.
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Now even though there are less negative signs, they hold more weight individually than any one of the positive signs.
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The letter began with "Hi Sweetheart" and ended with "I can't wait until you are in my arms. See you in a couple weeks." The post-mark was for December 2004.
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Whoa... Tomcat33 seems to have really good points.... and why the need to bring up about this? :.
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be happy ... definitely.
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It is hard to put the cat back in the bag but it is possible.
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Minus some details with which I cannot relate, this guy sounds almost like me. Like parallel me from another universe or something. Seems like he's still struggling too. Perhaps I should contact him and ask him if he's my long lost twin.
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I just wish he really WASN'T into me so I could just walk away and not look back. It would make my life and decisions a whole lot less complex.
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Thank you all for ur replies they all make sense. I'm just so hurt and lost idk what to do.
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Thats very true actually, but even then i don't want to hook up and i want to kiss him. ill just wait thank you!
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"sure, i can appreciate a new lover".
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Every day of my life I spend it wanting to get back to work to see him again. And on weekends is even harder...I cannot continue like that, I need to get my things in order.
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And if you find my post offensive, WHY are you reading and posting on a thread addressed towards MEN asking their opinions?
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looks familiar. any pics of her in bikini?
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The therapist also says that it is great and she encourages that I just go out on a date with no expectations. And I truly, truly don't have any at all. In fact, it's so relieving to not feel that expectation like I have before. I'm not going to get caught up in emotions and create this image of this guy before I even get to know him, or start twisting the reality or latching on and making excuses as to how interested he is, if he's not. You underestimate me. I would hope to hell I've learned from my mistakes before! I know I've been saying "I'm ready" for a long time, but as we all know, wanting to be ready and actually being READY are very different. I think rushing into things is the first mistake I have made upon a new relationship. As for my upcoming date, to be honest, I would be happy just starting out having a friendship for the time being. I'm not out there seeking validation or male attention like I used to. Believe me. I'm ok with just getting through this time, I've been very depressed and lethargic and sad... and hurt and beating myself up.
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I totally forgot about her fake breasts. I apologize because that adds a whole other predictable layer to this sordid tale.
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The very act of online dating suggests you're looking at a large number of people. In this day and age, I think most folks are at least aware that the other person might be seeing other people until you hop into bed or have the what-are-we discussion. There is no need to bring it up until you have that discussion, at which point you both agree to take down profiles, stop texting that dude from Iron Horse, and start having nights in with cheap delivery and episodes of The IT Crowd.