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Ronni

Unfortunately, though, I suspect that reality means that those rules, etc are only honoured in the breach because following them are, unlike laws, purely voluntary. We like rules, etc because we don't trust ourselves, less than we don't trust others. That's why you are here after all. You are questioning yourself and asking others, seeking comfort and re-assurance that "safety in numbers" can give. However, real confidence and satisfaction with the self comes from examining yourself, examining the context in which you exist and having consulted those rules and consulting others, making your decision about your existence, on your own terms that make sense at that very moment. Rules change, the context in which those rules operate change and you change too, sometimes consciously, sometimes unconsciously. Those who don't change, don't adapt, at least on terms that they can deal with, find it very hard to cope with life, any aspect of life.

Bandy

kevin - here's one you might appreciate.

Twanker

But it seems men begin to cultivate what they define as "beauty" and it goes beyond the flesh. Now, perhaps younger men are simply (mostly) incapable of seeing things that way....... but perhaps it is something that comes with time and experience... at least, that it can develop in some men, heh.

Vistula

Two words.....sexy tummy. 5 stars to admin!!!

Unique

In an environment with hierarchy and different power dynamics, you have to expect that people will put on false fronts. When I entered the work place in my early 20s, I got "in trouble" most about things I said, rather than the work I did. People rise to the top by minimizing their weaknesses and trumpeting their strengths. I'm not saying everybody at the top is bad, but they have pressure to be authoritative. Yet, they are human and have failings. In my 20 years in the working world, I have learned to be diplomatic and discreet. Maybe I'm a wimp, but sometimes you need to pick your battles. And a functioning team is more important than whose right and who gets the credit.

Pastile

2 more i think but my maths is crap.

Cioffi

If you don't want sex at this time in your life, you don't need a releationship and you have your friends for non-sexual company needs. Should "friends with benefits" be more accepted? That way you don't have to be in a relaitonship until that's what you want to do, but you don't have to be celebate either.

Wallraf

My advice....put it all behind and move on i.e. fresh start with someone else, with the relationship not based primarily on sex.

Sunway

This was my second time meeting the cousin. First meeting was very brief a couple of months ago, and I did not have a very good impression of him. Second meeting was when he came to the house earlier this month to stay with us while he did some work on a house that my boyfriend is trying to rent out. Again, not a good impression...a lot of drinking, drugs, etc...plus my bf had told me about prostitutes he had employed and a few other things about the guy's personal life that were less than stellar. Needless to say, I was not attracted to him in the slightest...not only is he not my type, but all of the bad things I knew about him disgusted me.