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It sounds to me like you're being perfectly reasonable. It's one thing to be suspicious without cause, but you've been responding to his evasiveness about his ex. Why can't he be straightforward about his relationship with her? If they're friends, what's the problem, right? I've been exactly where you are and it really irritated me. For what it's worth, it was a sign I didn't recognize at the time: my boyfriend had (has, but he's my ex now) enormous problems with relationship boundaries, with intimacy and with being real in a relationship. He never cheated on me with anyone -- certainly not the ex he was being cagey about -- but his inability to recognize that his "friendship" with this ex was not a real friendship (she, apparently, couldn't deal with hearing about him being with me), and his refusal to see that by indulging her he was creating a situation that was very unfair to me, were two big arrows pointing to the exit sign. I chose to ignore them.

Exceder

I'm pretty jaded, especially when it comes to cheating, but I do believe that once a cheater always a cheater. It's not true 100% of the time but I believe that it is a majority of the time. I think it's far deeper than just cheating. I've seen exbfs do this and I see my friends do this all the time. There are a couple of underlying issues that lead me to believe that people who cheat are missing something that cause them to cheat. All of the cheaters that I have come across have one or more of these issues:.

Boileau

interactions with people are very different from the Pavlovian response though. we are more complicated and tend to be unpredictable.