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However when I finally decided that I was indubitably ready to give all my attention and time to a lady and a serious relationship, the first thing that came up was the fact that there is an increasing number of ladies in their 20s and early 30s looking for the mature, secured, respectful, true gentleman in his 45+ years type of man. And with that came the question of whether I'd like to start a new family from scratch with a younger, mature, intelligent lady. And honestly? Although I adore children and would love (really would love it) to enjoy again those days when the child is a newborn through the child early adulthood, one thing made me come to the decision to not commit to a relationship where my lady desires to have kids between us. It is not that I dislike the idea. It's simply that, even if I were to keep myself in extraordinary mental and physical health, shape and condition, I can't get over the thought of becoming extremely frustrated, because when our child would be a teenager, I would be a senior citizen and perhaps would not be able to do all those things that younger (committed to family) fathers normally do and enjoy with their teenage children, like playing sports, helping with school work, having fun with their kids and their kids friends while bringing them around to movies, sleepovers, special occasions, etc.
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Even though I personally am fine with this kind of stuff, I can understand why she is uncomfortable, and she is not WRONG for being uncomfortable.