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Having different financial backgrounds and money-management styles is NOT a problem. How couples handle the differences CAN become a problem.

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Remagen

I'm totally self-made, and still working my way to real financial stability, so I get it.

Sharker

Like'n the long haired blond!

Meisner

I tend to rationalize everything which might be cool and useful sometimes but when it's about human relationships it's really annoying. I'm like really shy too, so it's really hard for me to even say "Hi" to a girl I like, I mean my brain floods with opposite thoughts and complicates things a lot, for example, the girl I like comes walking towards me, my mind automatically starts thinking "What do I do?" "Don't do anything stupid" "Ignore her" "Say Hi". It's awful but it only happens to me when I really care about that girl, or I really, really like her (I wouldn't say "Love" because you have to really know someone to love, but it's pretty close). Yeah I know... this borders psychological disorders.

Discriminate

I look at these threads and think back to my problems with dating. I still have issues with dating but I look at them with a different perspective. When it comes to dating or with anything in life there can be challenges. I see a lot of people just give up because all men or women are this. You see the same generalizations on both sides. Men and women on some level suffer the same challenges in dating we all want to appreciated more than just a superficial level. I know my challenges were that I was a nerd, introverted, lacked a lot of social skills, and was a "nice" guy. I say nice guy that way because honestly most nice guys are manipulative and immature. Think about you are nice because you want it to benefit you and because you attempted to manipulate you opened yourself up to manipulation and got nothing. I know because I was like this. There was a point where I was blaming everyone but the real person that was responsible me. After meeting some cold blooded players they gave me new perspective on dating. I am not to that degree they are on but it got me on a path to where I took a long hard look at myself and saw what I contributed to my own problems. Therapy also helped but what helped more was when I got off my ass and got my hand off my d**k (to the porn people) to go and be social. The best teacher is experience and the game is to be sold and not told. You can learn some things by someone teaching you but the best thing is getting out here and figuring out how to overcome why you have trouble with dating.

Transformed

Now your dilemma is, she's sort of cheated once and you'll probably forgive her but being young and having the ability to attract dudes there might come a time there's a guy she's attracted to and she's already tested out the waters of curiosity to see what it's like and she gotten away with it, as the saying goes.

Nuno

The concept is not offensive, it's just time consuming and impractical. The notion that you think the natural evolution of society and technology that people are choosing to immerse themselves in willingly isn't expediting things is ludicrous. It's like you're saying "Why does everyone drive cars? Cars can crash sometimes so they're a bad idea. I tried a car once and I didn't like it. Therefore, everyone should have to walk everywhere.".