Sujannat (32) escort Kansas City

Tinsmith

I am studying for a bachelor's degree in Social Work...anything else..just ask I am interested in making friends as I enjoy male companionship and like to do outdoorsy things, I have three young.

Fusillade

Don't let her see you vulnerable and needy. Trust your instincts and investigate a little bit. If you feel there's fowl play then break it off. If you feel this can be worked around then talk with her. But it looks like she's over 50 years old and haven't grown up yet.

Paladins

As a girl who has done the same exact thing she has done, don't freak out. You have to prepare yourself that this may not work out. And if it does, then you will be greatly surprised. It seems to me that you are doing all the right things, but that could be the problem. Sometimes guys try to be too nice. Girls like a little mystery. Girls like the bad boy. Do not tell her you really like her and want to spend more time with her. Just do it. Girls use words, guys use actions. Be the cool guy who goes out with his guy friends instead of her. Live YOUR life. She may see this as attractive and come running back. Without being a total jerk, make it seem like it is a special thing to be able to spend time with you. She will see you as more of a commodity. You need to back off and live your life and pretend to care less about her, when in reality you seem to really like her. Play things cool. Girls love cool. They love the guy who suddenly has a free moment and wants to walk to the beach, or grab a quit lunch at a cafe. Get rid of all the serious dinner dates and going to the movies. Do something low key and spontaneous. Being a gentleman is very attractive, but being a push over is not. What my ex used to do that I loved was when I would have a bunch of friends over, I would include him. He would almost be my go to co-host. He would make drinks in the kitchen and I would clean and entertain my friends. Then sometimes just to surprise me he would call me in the kitchen. When I would go in he would be all cute and grab me a little and ask for a kiss and then he would just go for it. It was not only exciting to feel wanted, but to think your friends are in the next room. You don't have to be a wild child, I am not. But adding a little suspense to your relationship with her will add interest. Keep her hanging on the edge. Have minimal time on your date to spend with her. Talk about your future but don't talk about her in it. That used to get me every time with my ex. I loved his future goals and dreams, but I wanted to be in them. So I would then try to be around him more and would try to please him to be in that future. I hope things work out. If they don't, do not worry. I have felt like that girl before. There is nothing wrong with you and that is the problem. You are perfectly adequate but she isn't feeling butterflies and fireworks with you. You could just be better as friends. If you do end up having a talk about being together, play it cool. Act like you hadn't really thought about it and that its no big deal. This will make you seem less involved and she will probably want to be more involved. Good Luck!

Hisself

You travel and want someone to share comings and goings with. Please be 45 and above and if you.

Erd

Im an open minded non judgement easy going a social butterfl.

Mabuhay

I know that he had a very long (7 years) relationship in the past (many years ago), he loved the girl, she ended it and he was hurt very badly. That was when he *decided* to change, he even told me once "I used to be like you, very emotional, but I got screwed many times so I learned my lesson, I learned to control/repress my feelings".

Objectivity

Hi Everyone... I posted a couple days ago about my situation and I appreciate your responses. In a nutshell... my guy treats me like crap, has a questionable relationship with his exwife and I can't trust him to save my life. I know I should leave him, but I lost all of my friends because of him and I'm terrified to go through the whole breaking up, heartbroken thing with no support system. Some people sugggested trying to get back in touch with my old friends... Not really possible because at the end it got really ugly.