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Unlead

Do I just tell him oh by the way, if we have sex tonight, your ad comes down first? ha ha.

Countersecurity

2) Go for it when the moment is right. There will be something, at some point, when somebody's hand lingers or the conversation gets unexpectedly flirtatious or you just laugh a little too long. It will take care of itself from there.

Fretters

Hmmm. I guess maybe it's YOU who needs to "read my words correctly.".

Shellie

If she's lying, its not acceptable. I forgot to mention that both of her parents are cheating on each other, so that is not setting the greatest example for her.

Hichens

My girlfriend and her parents don't have that respect... I don't know if I ever will get it (or want to get it).

Untapped

Let me give you a piece of advice. NEVER ask a man to pick between you and his game. You will lose. Let the man watch his game tonight. You've been dating for 1 month only and already you want to control him, enough.

Memo

Once you get a sense for where this is going, or where it could lead anyway, then you want to ask yourself some basic questions about compatibility, and whether her actions are matching her words. It could be that she doesn't have the same protocols for relationships that you do. Or maybe it's that she just isn't handling the long distance relationship well. Sometimes, in an LDR, there's a tendency for people to get used to someone not being around at the end of the day, especially if you're not talking or texting every day. Over time, that can exact a toll on the relationship.

Oloroso

I'm doing the same thing you are....passing time, learning and trying to disseminate my experiences to other.

Pinello

You're going to have a lot of problems on your hands if you marry this guy and the biggest one is going to be keeping your children away from his mom. That's just not going to work. The next big problem is you staying disconnected from his family. These two things alone are going to create arguments and resentment between the two of you. And if you end up divorcing over this - which is very possible - then you will have absolutely no say over what he does with the kids when they're with him. It's very possible that he would return to the religion and the kids would then have extreme exposure to it. Even if he didn't return, he would most likely give his family full access to the kids and I'm sure you can see how that would pan out.

Wheelin

Whoops, Hi. Well, i am definalety glad i found this forum. I totally understand how you feel. Its killing me right now. I have only been with my guy( we are both college grads) for 5 months, while he was with " her" for 2 and a half years, and was single for a whole year before me. The relatinship between him and I is new. My first rule i pounded on him, was NOT to speak about the EX. A simple rule, that can be so deadly to me. He tries hard not to mention her name, so he will recall to her as " my freind", or " some girl i knew". I dont understand why he needs to bring her up, or what she liked too. It hurts me so much. The other day he showed me a photo albulm that i did not want to see. The photo alboulm had photos of him and his Ex , as well as photos of his freinds. I had told him before i did not want to see them, for some reason he pulled it out in front of me. Almost every page he turned my heart broke. She looked liked an older girl, she wasnt as beautiful, but they looked so in love in the photos, and she had a killer body. That night, i was so heart broken that i couldnt even speak. I have not spoken to him since, but i am still hurt. I feel as if i shouldt be, and that i am being irrational. I want to call things off, and i think i am gonna break up with him very soon. All because i cant control this jealous, hurtfull obession. Just my thoughts. My weird thoughts. I wish I just knew how to overcome them.

Kejones

Guess I was filling a void I'm so upset and hurt.

Loan

I am 41 years old and live in Clovis, CA. I am a widow :( My husband passed away nearly 3 years ago and it has been really difficul.

Marehan

Rather when writing myself, my friends have described me and said that I was a very honest, romantic, a gentleman, selfless and very caring. Loves animals and always there for the other.

Gessler

My favorite form of humor are found in BritComs and in Black Comedies. Yes, I believe it takes a level of intelligence to appreciate the complexities of the jokes, but does that make them elitist?

Reckons

So even though he's telling me he wants to be with me it's best to just walk away. Knowing the situation would you say I am the one to blame in all this that it is all my fault and that in his words I deserve to suffer...?

Willows

I wasn't trying to justify her cheating. There is no excuse for that.